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Recommended Legal Documents to Consider Before Sending Your Teen to College
After paying bills for tuition, room, board, and other college costs, it may come as a shock that the college your child attends will not provide you with their grades. Officially, your 18-year-old is an adult, so, legally, you will have to seek their permission to make healthcare and financial decisions for them, along with asking them to provide you with updates on how they are doing in their classes!
This information has some critical implications. For example, if your student sustains a serious injury or illness, you will need written permission from your teen to discuss and make healthcare choices for their treatment with the healthcare professionals treating them. Therefore, it’s an excellent idea to get a Health Care Proxy (also called a medical power of attorney) signed by your college-bound student before they leave for college so you can make medical decisions on their behalf in emergency situations. Since each state has different requirements, it’s important that the document aligns with the state laws where it may be used.
You can also get a HIPAA (Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act) authorization (also called a HIPAA release) signed by your teen so that healthcare providers can give you information about your teen’s general healthcare.
Lastly, you may want to get a Durable Power of Attorney that will allow you to make financial decisions on their behalf.
Here is a link to an excellent article with online resources for these forms: GrownandFlown: The Legal Documents You Need When Your Child Turns 18
Thinking ahead and being prepared is prudent; these documents will give you peace of mind as you send your 18-year-old off to college.
How Many APs Does It Take To Get Into Yale?
There seems to be a growing trend of students self-studying for AP exams in order to rack up as many as possible — and I assume that the rationale is that these students think that they are positioning themselves better for highly selective admission. The truth is, it can have just the opposite effect.
You can’t quantify passion!
Five? Ten? Twenty?
The answer is… there is no threshold below which a student is out of the running and above which a student is a guaranteed admit.
There seems to be a growing trend of students self-studying for AP exams in order to rack up as many as possible. In fact, according to the College Board, 3,779 students in the graduating class of 2018 took more than 14 AP exams! I assume that the rationale at work here is that these students think that they are positioning themselves better for highly selective admission. The truth is, it can have just the opposite effect.
Last week, I was talking with the Dean of Admission at a very highly selective university. “Don’t send us your grinders,” she quipped. When I asked her to elaborate, she defined a “grinder” as the type of student that is all about the test score, the grade in the class, the total hours of community service, the athletic statistics, or the first place trophies. “We’ve done the research. They tend to be very good employees, but they don’t change the world.”
So what do you do if you are a grinder at your core? Some of us are — it’s how we motivate ourselves, how we judge our success. And that’s fine! But remember to take a step back from the frenzy and pursue the things that you really love, even if you aren’t going to get a quantifiable result. Read a book that’s not assigned for class, just because you think it would be fascinating. Write a song. Join a campaign. Find your creative side and celebrate it. Ask questions and search for answers. Think of your education as a human being as happening 24-hours a day, not just when you are in school.
Am I saying that taking AP classes and scoring well in them doesn’t matter? Absolutely not! Your academic record is the most important aspect of your application for admission. But every year, highly selective institutions reject tens of thousands of grinders with perfect GPAs and test scores… and sometimes twenty AP scores of a 5!
Before You Hit "Submit" On Your College Apps, Read This
Application season is HERE! Like here, here. You probably know you’ll need to take care of the basic things like filling out the Common App and finishing your main college essay. However, if you want to maximize your chances of getting admitted and your scholarship offers, there are many more factors to consider.
For example, College Kickstart surveyed ten colleges that admit between 10 and 24% of their applicants. Those colleges reportedly increased their Early Decision enrollment by 5% (on average) from the 2025 class to the 2026 class. How can you use data like this and apply it to your own application strategy?
We hear it from students and parents all the time: “When it comes to college applications, I just don’t want to miss anything!”
That’s why our Educational Consultant Gilbert Guo is hosting a virtual event titled “Before Hitting ‘Submit’ On Your College Apps,” right before students head into their senior year. This presentation will address some of the most common mistakes students make during application season and how you can stay ahead of those in your own process! For more info or to secure your spot, you can go here to get started.
Should I work with a private college counselor?
It can be easy to get lost in the crowd!
Making the decision to work with an independent college consultant depends on many things: family dynamics, specific needs, and time. For some families familiar with the benefits of working with an IEC, it’s a no-brainer. Others wonder what the benefits would be. So we thought it would be helpful to hear from some of our current and past clients about why they chose to work with us.
“I suppose we could have educated ourselves and done it ourselves, but we don’t have the time.” I feel the same way about doing my taxes; I could do it myself, but I’d much rather hire an expert!
“Sometimes we would say the same things, but when you say it he listened.” Welcome to the teenage psyche! Often they do listen better to anyone but their parents.
“We don’t know what we don’t know.” The process of applying to college has changed dramatically since most patents applied themselves. Of course families worry that they will miss something.
“We wanted to find the right fit and having someone that had actually been on all of these campuses made all the difference.” It is like having a friend scope out the AirBnB before you rent it, but on a much larger scale.
“College is too expensive of an investment not to get it right.” Absolutely! That’s why we put affordability first in our conversations with a new family.
“Her schedule was so busy! We needed someone that could work with her when she was free.” We understand how packed many teen’s schedules are! That is why we work on school breaks, in the summer, and evenings and weekends — it’s when they have the time to buckle down and get thins done.
“Working with you was a gift I gave to myself.” The high school years fly by, and having the last few years at home with your student be as nag-free as possible is a gift!
If you do choose to work with an independent college consultant, make sure that they are a member of the Independent Educational Consultants Association, which has stringent criteria for membership and holds its members to the highest ethical standards in the industry.
INTERVIEW: Do You Have What It Takes to Study Engineering in College?
While it's challenging to study engineering in college, it can also be very rewarding and stimulating! As part of College Matters' Student to Student series, we interviewed our former student Audry to talk about who would be a good fit for engineering, how unlikely classes and clubs helped her, and advice for engineering applicants.
INTERVIEW: The Most DIRECT Way You Can Become a Doctor: BS/MD
Do you have aspirations of becoming a doctor one day? There's a way you can bypass the medical school applications and get earlier assurance into med school. As part of College Matters' Student to Student series, we interviewed our former student Anish to talk about the basics of how BS/MD works and other important advice now that he’s a current BS/MD student.
College Matters Class of 2022 College Acceptances
We are so proud of all our students in the Class of 2022! Here is where our students have been admitted.
Appalachian State University
American University
Arizona State University
Bard College
Berklee College of Music
Bentley University
Boston College
Bowdoin College
Bowling Green State University
Brandeis University
Brown University
Bryant University
Carnegie Mellon University
Case Western Reserve University
Christopher Newport University
Clark University
Clarkson University
Clemson University
College of Charleston
The College of New Jersey
College of William and Mary
Colgate University
Colorado State University
Columbia University
Cornell University
Dartmouth College
DePaul University
Drexel University
East Carolina University
Eastman School of Music (University of Rochester)
Elon University
Endicott College
Emmanuel College
Fairfield University
Fordham University
Gettysburg College
Hamilton College
Hobart William Smith Colleges
Hofstra University
Indiana University
Ithaca College
James Madison University
Johns Hopkins University
Lawrence University
LeMoyne College
Loyola Marymount University
Loyola University Maryland
Loyola University New Orleans
Macalester College
Manhattanville College
Marist College
Merrimack College
Miami University (OH)
Michigan State University
Middlebury College
Mount Holyoke College
Northeastern University
Oberlin College
The Ohio State University
Oklahoma State University
Pace University-New York
Pennsylvania State University
Providence College
Quinnipiac University
Reed College
Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute
Rice University
Roger Williams University
Rollins College
Rose-Hulman Institute of Technology
Sacred Heart University
Salve Regina University
School of Visual Arts
St. Lawrence University
St. Olaf College
Siena College
Skidmore College
Smith College
Stonehill College
Stony Brook University
Syracuse University
Tufts University
Tulane University
Union College
University of Alabama
University of Arizona
University at Buffalo
University of California - Davis
University of California - Irvine
University of California - Santa Cruz
University of Connecticut
University of Chicago
University of Delaware
University of Denver
University of Georgia
University of Illinois - Urbana Champaign
University of Maryland
University of Massachusetts-Amherst
University of Michigan
University of Missouri
University of New Hampshire
University of North Carolina-Chapel Hill
University of North Carolina-Charlotte
University of Oregon
University of Pittsburgh
University of Rhode Island
University of Rochester
University of South Carolina
University of South Florida
University of Tennessee
University of Vermont
University of Virginia
Vanderbilt University
Vassar College
Villanova University
Wake Forest University
Western Connecticut State University
Western New England
Wheaton College (MA)
Williams College
Worcester Polytechnic Institute
Yale University
How to Make the Most of College Admitted Student Events
Getting back on campus is great, but there are other ways to make up your mind.
Q: I’ve been admitted to several colleges. How can I choose by May 1?
A: It certainly is an anxious and unpredictable time! Even more so for high school seniors who are awaiting final decisions and feeling the pressure of the impending deadline to select a college.
The good news is that many colleges have gone back to in-person admitted student visit days. These are great and allow students to see the school through a different lens: one of a shopper and not an applicant. But what if you can’t attend?
Participate in virtual events. Many colleges are hosting virtual visit days for admitted students. You’ll be able to interact with faculty, speak with current students, and view some of the facilities.
Talk to a current student. If you don’t know someone from your high school or hometown that attends, call the admission office. They’re happy to make a connection.
Reach out to faculty in your area(s) of interest. Most faculty are happy to answer the questions of admitted students. And if they won’t make themselves available, well, that tells you something too.
Join the admitted student group online. These could be your future classmates. Do you like what you see and hear?
Read the college newspaper. Most college papers are online and searchable. What events intrigue you? What are students complaining about? Is the general vibe activist, collegiate, intellectual, humorous?
Ask for more time. If a college does not extend their enrollment deadline, call and ask if they will extend to give you time to make a decision.
But don’t double deposit!! Sending in two deposits is a violation of the NACAC guidelines and could result in you having both acceptances revoked. At the end of the day, you will need to go with your gut and choose. And if you’re really undecided, it’s probably because you are choosing from among several schools that are outstanding choices. And, most likely, there is no bad choice!
Should You Use Your Free SAT Score Reports?
When students register for the SAT, they are given the option to send their scores to four colleges for free. Sounds great! Right?
Here’s why you might want to consider waiting…
If you choose to send the free score reports, you do so before you see your scores. That’s not a problem if you do well, but if you don’t perform to your potential, you may have just sent a score to a college that you’d rather not have them see. And with the growing number of colleges and universities going test-optional, you may choose not to submit scores at all!
Worried that sending scores later may be financially challenging for your family? Don’t! Students that get a fee waiver to take the SAT will still be able to send scores for free after they’ve taken the test.
Generally, our advice is to wait, review your entire test history, and only then choose which scores to send to which colleges.
Waitlisted! Now What? Next Steps
Welcome to the waitlist, the No Man’s Land of college admissions. Unlike waiting in line at the deli counter clutching your ticket with 93 printed on it and realizing that they are currently serving number 89, the waitlist in college admissions works differently. There is no order or ranking of students on the list, so contacting admissions to ask where you are on the waitlist is not a productive use of your time. The waitlist is an enrollment management tool used to help a college or university meet its enrollment objectives. Colleges look at prior yield rates, the percentage of accepted students who actually enroll, when admitting students. For example, if a college has a yield rate of 20% and wants a class of 1,000 students, it will accept 5,000 applicants. If the actual yield is lower than predicted, the college will utilize the waitlist to shore-up its freshmen class. As an enrollment management tool, the waitlist is also used to shape the class. If the university wants to expand an academic major, add geographic, socio-economic, ethnic or racial diversity, or increase the trumpet section of the marching band, they will pull students off the waitlist to meet their needs. Although a student’s probability of getting admitted off the waitlist is unpredictable, we do have this happen to students every year.
If you happen to be waitlisted, we offer the following advice. First, make sure that you put an enrollment deposit down at a college to which you were admitted. This is critical. Because you typically won’t come off the waitlist until after the May 1st deposit deadline, you will need to put an enrollment deposit down at another school to reserve your spot. Second, follow the directions given to you by the school that waitlisted you. Some schools want you to simply check a box on your student portal to indicate that you wish to remain on the waitlist and others want you to submit a letter of continued interest. Follow the directions! If the college wants additional information, it is good to include any updates to your academic record or extracurricular curricular activities and why the colleges is a good match for you. It should be brief and highlight new information that wasn’t included in your initial application. Finally, don’t be a nuisance to admissions. Reaching out to your regional admissions representative once is fine, but multiple calls, emails, and fancy chocolates won’t improve your chances. With an overall increase in applications this application cycle, we do anticipate more movement on waitlists this year, so if you happen to be one of the lucky ones, congratulations!
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IN the Archive
- 5 Reasons 13
- Affordability 23
- Application Tips 11
- Ask the Consultant 52
- Athletes 6
- Career 7
- College Decisions 9
- College Visit 24
- Essay Writing 26
- Events 1
- Gap Year 3
- Grad School 8
- In the News 18
- Interviews 8
- Learning Differences 5
- Music 1
- News 28
- On the Road Again 6
- Parents 11
- Preparing 148
- Press 2
- Resume 9
- Starting Early 23
- Student to Student 16
- Testing 24
- Transfer 5
- Virtual Learning 2

